I began my professional journey in the world of exact sciences, but I quickly realized that my true calling lay in working with people. I started out in an NGO, where I encountered countless life stories—stories of suffering, love, hope, and the resilience to carry on. This experience solidified my belief that I wanted to help people find meaning, regain balance, and discover their path to healing.

Since then, I have blended a cognitive-behavioral approach with Schema Therapy, a method I believe fosters deep healing. Each of us carries with us the experiences of our childhood—the ways we were loved, understood, or rejected. And within each of us lives a “Vulnerable Child,” who, to cope with pain, has learned certain strategies. These strategies, though necessary at the time, can later hold us back as adults, leaving us feeling that life is harder than it needs to be.

Along this path, I’ve had the honor of meeting mentors who showed me how Schema Therapy can bring profound change. Through my clients and my own journey, I’ve discovered how essential it is to allow yourself to be vulnerable, to face your pain, and to learn to love yourself just as you are. In therapy, I bring empathy, warmth, and a sincere commitment to supporting you in your process of self-discovery and healing.

As a new mother, I have learned another valuable lesson: no matter how much we want to be the best for our children, we sometimes remain trapped in old patterns of self-denial or perfectionism. I believe the most beautiful thing we can do for them is to allow ourselves to love ourselves, to accept our imperfections, and to seek the balance we need.

With openness and warmth, I invite you to walk the path of healing together. Together, we can explore the questions that trouble you: Why do I feel this way? How can I truly listen to my needs? How can I find the strength to love and appreciate myself?

I look forward to welcoming you with hope and kindness, ready for a new life story,

Roxana Nicolau