The starting point for this reflection is the documentary Portrait of a Confused Father , made by Gunnar Hall Jensen — a disturbing confession about the relationship between a father and his son, about the fragility of life, and about how today’s boys end up looking for role models...

A reflection from the therapy room Have you ever looked at your partner and, without meaning to, thought about who they loved before you? Many people bring this question to my attention in therapy, sometimes in a low, almost ashamed voice: “Why do I keep thinking about his/her exes?...